Day 11 of the Women’s Bible Plan: Read Genesis 21:8-21 and reflect on Hagar and Ishmael’s painful journey into the wilderness. This devotional helps women consider how God shows mercy to the rejected, hears the cries of the helpless, and opens our eyes to see His provision even in places of deep loneliness and despair.
Some wounds in life do not come because we have done something wrong, yet they still hurt deeply. To be misunderstood, pushed aside, sent away, treated as a problem, or forced to leave a place where we once belonged can leave a person feeling forgotten, unwanted, and alone.
Today we read the story of Hagar and Ishmael. This was not the first time Hagar found herself in the wilderness, and it was not the first time she felt there was no way forward. Years earlier, she had fled into the wilderness, and God met her there, saw her, called her, and gave her a promise. Now, she is sent away again, walking into a dry and lonely place with her child. The water runs out, and it seems that hope has run out with it.
But the beauty of this passage is this: human relationships may push Hagar away, human decisions may send her into the wilderness, and human eyes may stop seeing her—but God still hears. He hears the voice of the child, and He sees the tears of the mother. He does not allow Hagar’s story to end in rejection and despair. In the wilderness, He opens her eyes to see the water He has already provided.
JANUARY 11 / Day 11
Genesis 21:8-21 records a painful family conflict. The day Isaac was weaned should have been a moment of joy and celebration, but Sarah sees Ishmael mocking and asks Abraham to cast out Hagar and her son. Abraham is deeply grieved, yet God tells him to listen to Sarah, while also promising that Ishmael will become a nation.
So Hagar leaves with bread and a bottle of water, and she wanders in the wilderness of Beersheba. When the water is gone, she places her child under a shrub and sits a good way off, unable to bear the sight of his death. In that moment, she has no way, no supply, no strength, and no visible hope—only tears.
Yet Scripture tells us that “God heard the voice of the lad.” The angel of God calls to Hagar from heaven, comforts her, tells her not to fear, and reminds her that God has heard the voice of the child. Then God opens her eyes, and she sees a well of water. The child lives because God provides.
Today’s theme, “God Hears the Cry,” reminds us that those rejected by people are not forgotten by God. Those walking through the wilderness are still under His care. When the water bottle is empty, God can still open our eyes to see the well He has already prepared.
1 Hagar and Ishmael were sent away into the wilderness. Have you ever felt ignored, wounded by relationships, forced out, or made to feel that you no longer had a place? How have those experiences shaped the way you see God, others, or yourself?
2 When the water was gone, Hagar sat at a distance because she could not bear to watch her child die. Have you ever reached a moment when you felt, “I have nothing left to do”? How do you usually respond when you feel powerless or hopeless?
3 God did not first change the wilderness; He first opened Hagar’s eyes so she could see the well. Could God be opening your eyes today to see His mercy, provision, and presence in a place that still feels dry and unresolved?
As you read Genesis 21:8-21 today, look closely at Hagar’s tears and God’s mercy toward the rejected. Stand beside that well in the wilderness and remember: God hears the cry. God has not forgotten. God is still able to provide life where hope seems gone.
Take a quiet moment before you begin. Bring your unspoken disappointments, loneliness, helplessness, and tears before the Lord, and let His Word meet you there.
“And God heard the voice of the lad; and the angel of God called to Hagar out of heaven, and said unto her, What aileth thee, Hagar? fear not; for God hath heard the voice of the lad where he is.”
— Genesis 21:17
8 And the child grew, and was weaned: and Abraham made a great feast the same day that Isaac was weaned.
9 And Sarah saw the son of Hagar the Egyptian, which she had born unto Abraham, mocking.
10 Wherefore she said unto Abraham, Cast out this bondwoman and her son: for the son of this bondwoman shall not be heir with my son, even with Isaac.
11 And the thing was very grievous in Abraham's sight because of his son.
12 And God said unto Abraham, Let it not be grievous in thy sight because of the lad, and because of thy bondwoman; in all that Sarah hath said unto thee, hearken unto her voice; for in Isaac shall thy seed be called.
13 And also of the son of the bondwoman will I make a nation, because he is thy seed.
14 And Abraham rose up early in the morning, and took bread, and a bottle of water, and gave it unto Hagar, putting it on her shoulder, and the child, and sent her away: and she departed, and wandered in the wilderness of Beersheba.
15 And the water was spent in the bottle, and she cast the child under one of the shrubs.
16 And she went, and sat her down over against him a good way off, as it were a bow shot: for she said, Let me not see the death of the child. And she sat over against him, and lift up her voice, and wept.
17 And God heard the voice of the lad; and the angel of God called to Hagar out of heaven, and said unto her, What aileth thee, Hagar? fear not; for God hath heard the voice of the lad where he is.
18 Arise, lift up the lad, and hold him in thine hand; for I will make him a great nation.
19 And God opened her eyes, and she saw a well of water; and she went, and filled the bottle with water, and gave the lad drink.
20 And God was with the lad; and he grew, and dwelt in the wilderness, and became an archer.
21 And he dwelt in the wilderness of Paran: and his mother took him a wife out of the land of Egypt.
✨ Thank you for walking through today’s Scripture with us, dear sister.
Genesis 21:8-21 reminds us that God is not only present in moments of celebration; He is also present in the wilderness. He does not only see those who are welcomed and embraced; He hears the cries of those who feel rejected and abandoned. Now, let us bring before Him the places in our lives where we have felt unseen, wounded, pushed aside, or left to carry burdens alone.
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“Dear Heavenly Father, today as I read about Hagar and Ishmael being sent away, I am reminded of many wounds that can happen in relationships. Lord, You know the moments in my life when I have felt ignored, misunderstood, rejected, pushed aside, or left without a place. Some wounds I have learned to hide. Some tears I have been afraid to name again.
But today’s Scripture reminds me that You are not a distant God. You saw Hagar in the wilderness, and You heard Ishmael’s cry. Help me believe that my tears are not meaningless before You, and my pain is not overlooked by You. Do not let me define my worth by human rejection. Let me know again, in Your mercy, that I am seen, remembered, and upheld by You. Amen.”
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“Lord, Hagar’s water was gone, and she could no longer see a way forward. She could only sit at a distance and weep. I also know what it feels like when the water runs out—when strength runs out, patience runs out, hope runs out, and the sense of safety in relationships runs out. In those moments, I often think everything is over. I can see only the wilderness, not Your presence.
Open my eyes, Lord, as You opened Hagar’s eyes. Let me see the well You have prepared. Even if my circumstances do not change immediately, let me first see that You are still here. Even if every question is not answered today, let me know that You have not left me. In my deepest thirst and helplessness, lift me again through Your mercy and provision. Amen.”
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“Father, I pray today for the women around me who feel like Hagar—rejected, forgotten, or forced to carry pain alone. Some may be single mothers. Some may be lonely wives. Some may be daughters who feel misunderstood in their families. Some may be women carrying quiet wounds in church, ministry, or the workplace. They may look strong on the outside, but inside they are weary.
Lord, come near to them. Hear their cries. Open their eyes to see the help You have prepared for them. Raise up faithful people to walk with them, protect them, encourage them, and support them. Make us women of mercy, not people who minimize another person’s pain or offer shallow explanations for deep tears. Teach us to walk with others through the wilderness in love. Amen.”
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“Compassionate Father, I pray for those around the world who have been abandoned, displaced, rejected, or ignored. I pray for refugees, for children who have lost their homes, for those forced to flee because of poverty, war, violence, and injustice. I also pray for women and children who have been pushed to the margins by families, communities, or broken systems.
Lord, hear their cries. Let Your mercy reach the wilderness places of this world. Raise up churches, communities, and responsible leaders to provide water, shelter, protection, and a way forward for the helpless. Let the world see more of Your heart: You do not despise the weak. You hear the cry, show mercy to the rejected, and provide life in places of despair. Amen.”
As we finish Genesis 21:8-21, we see a mother walking into the wilderness, and we see a God who hears the cry. Hagar’s water bottle was empty, but God’s mercy was not empty. She could not see a way forward, but God had already prepared a well. She thought she and her child had been forgotten, but God had already heard their voices.
As we close this page and return to real life, some relationships may still feel unresolved. Some wounds may still ache. Some circumstances may still feel dry, lonely, and uncertain. But remember this: the wilderness is not a place where God is absent, and tears are not sounds that God ignores.
When you feel lonely, helpless, misunderstood, or forgotten today, let this passage remind you: God hears. God sees. God still has mercy. May He open your eyes to see the well He has prepared in the place that feels barren. And after you have been comforted by Him, may you become a source of support and hope for someone else walking through the wilderness.
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