Day 78 of the Women’s Bible Plan: Read John 12:1-8 and reflect on Mary, who anointed the feet of Jesus with very costly ointment of spikenard. Through her act of worship, this devotional helps women learn what it means to love the Lord deeply and offer Him what is precious.
March 19 / Day 78
Some love is quiet, yet deeply powerful. Some worship does not need many words, yet carries the weight of full surrender. A person who truly loves the Lord does not only say, “Lord, I love You,” but also shows through action that He is worthy of what is most precious.
In John Chapter 12, Jesus comes to Bethany. There we see His beloved friends: Martha serving, Lazarus sitting at the table with Him, and Mary taking a pound of very costly ointment of spikenard to anoint the feet of Jesus. Then she wipes His feet with her hair, and the house is filled with the fragrance of the ointment.
This scene is beautiful and deeply moving. Mary does not stand before the crowd to give a speech, nor does she explain many spiritual truths. She simply pours out what is costly upon the Lord. Her love is not what remains after careful calculation. It is wholehearted, unreserved, and fragrant before Jesus.
John 12:1-8 takes place six days before the passover. Jesus comes to Bethany, where Lazarus was, whom He had raised from the dead. A supper is made for Him there; Martha serves, and Lazarus is one of those who sit at the table with Him.
In the middle of this supper, Mary takes a pound of ointment of spikenard, very costly, and anoints the feet of Jesus. She then wipes His feet with her hair, and the house is filled with the fragrance of the ointment. This act is more than an emotional expression. It is deep worship. The ointment was extremely valuable and may have represented nearly a year’s wages. For Mary, this was not something small or casual. It was precious.
Judas criticizes her, asking why the ointment was not sold for three hundred pence and given to the poor. On the surface, his words sound reasonable. But Scripture reveals that he did not say this because he cared for the poor, but because he was a thief and had the bag. Sometimes human calculation can wear spiritual language, but the Lord sees the true motives of the heart.
Jesus speaks in Mary’s defense: “Let her alone: against the day of my burying hath she kept this.” Mary may not have fully understood all that was about to happen in Jesus’ death, but her act of love was received by the Lord and given a deeper meaning by Him. Before His suffering, she anointed Him, almost as if preparing His body for burial.
From the perspective of “Women in the Bible,” Mary’s life is especially tender and beautiful. She had once sat at Jesus’ feet to hear His word. She had also come weeping to Him after the death of Lazarus. Now again, she is at His feet, offering costly ointment. Again and again, Mary appears near the feet of Jesus: listening, grieving, worshiping, and giving. She shows us that loving the Lord is not a passing emotion, but a heart that keeps drawing near to Him, knowing Him, treasuring Him, and offering itself to Him.
Today’s theme, “Mary: Anointing Jesus,” invites us to reflect: Are we willing to offer the Lord what is precious? That precious thing may not be ointment. It may be our time, gifts, money, dreams, comfort, security, praise from others, or something we have held tightly for a long time. True worship is not giving God what we no longer need. It is acknowledging that the Lord is worthy of our best.
1 Mary offered very costly ointment of spikenard to Jesus. What is most “costly” in your life? Is it your time, energy, money, gifts, dreams, relationships, sense of security, or approval from others? Are you willing to ask the Lord, “Is there anything I have been holding back that You are worthy to receive?”
2 Judas criticized Mary under the appearance of concern for the poor, but his heart was not sincere. Have you ever been afraid to love, worship, serve, or give wholeheartedly because of how others might judge you? When people do not understand your offering, are you still willing to keep your eyes on Jesus?
3 When Mary poured out the ointment, the house was filled with its fragrance. Does your love for the Lord also bring the fragrance of Christ into your home, church, workplace, and relationships? What is one concrete way you can let others experience more of the Lord’s love through your worship and obedience today?
As you read John 12:1-8 today, do not only notice a jar of ointment. Notice a heart that loves the Lord. Do not only notice the criticism of others. Notice how Jesus Himself defends Mary. May Mary’s story remind us that love offered to the Lord may seem too much in the eyes of people, but it is beautiful in His sight.
Take a quiet breath before you begin. Bring before the Lord what is most precious, most difficult to release, and most carefully guarded in your heart, and let His Word meet you there.
“Then took Mary a pound of ointment of spikenard, very costly, and anointed the feet of Jesus, and wiped his feet with her hair: and the house was filled with the odour of the ointment.”
— John 12:3
12 Then Jesus six days before the passover came to Bethany, where Lazarus was, which had been dead, whom he raised from the dead.
2 There they made him a supper; and Martha served: but Lazarus was one of them that sat at the table with him.
3 Then took Mary a pound of ointment of spikenard, very costly, and anointed the feet of Jesus, and wiped his feet with her hair: and the house was filled with the odour of the ointment.
4 Then saith one of his disciples, Judas Iscariot, Simon's son, which should betray him,
5 Why was not this ointment sold for three hundred pence, and given to the poor?
6 This he said, not that he cared for the poor; but because he was a thief, and had the bag, and bare what was put therein.
7 Then said Jesus, Let her alone: against the day of my burying hath she kept this.
8 For the poor always ye have with you; but me ye have not always.
✨ Thank you for walking through today’s Scripture with us, dear sister.
John 12:1-8 shows us Mary anointing Jesus with very costly ointment of spikenard. Her act was criticized by others, yet received by the Lord. What looked wasteful to human eyes was full of meaning before Jesus. Now, let us bring our love, worship, offerings, and the precious things we hesitate to surrender before God in prayer.
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Father, thank You for reminding me through Mary that true love does not give You only what is left over, but acknowledges that You are worthy of my best. Mary offered very costly ointment to Jesus not because she did not know its value, but because she knew that the Lord was more precious still.
Lord, shine Your light on my heart and show me what I find hardest to surrender. Perhaps it is my time, plans, money, gifts, dreams, comfort, reputation, or the future I want to control. Help me not only say with my lips that I love You, but also place You first in the reality of my daily life. May I not give You only the tired, scattered, and unwanted pieces of my life, but offer what is precious with a willing and worshiping heart. Amen.
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Lord, Mary’s offering was not praised by everyone. Judas criticized her and said the ointment should have been sold and given to the poor. Yet You saw the heart, and You saw Mary’s love. Lord, I confess that I often care deeply about what others think. When people do not understand my offering, my service, my choices, or the way I love You, I can easily shrink back, explain myself, feel wounded, or begin to doubt.
Help me place my eyes back on You. If my motives need to be purified, purify them. If my heart is truly seeking to love You, strengthen me. Let me not serve in order to win human applause, nor stop worshiping because I fear human criticism. Teach me, like Mary, to offer my love to You, entrust people’s judgments to You, and rest my heart before You. Amen.
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Father, I also pray for the sisters around me. You know that many women sincerely love You and desire to serve You, yet they often feel weary in giving or wounded by misunderstanding. Some offer their time quietly. Some offer their gifts. Some are faithful to You in their homes. Some serve silently in the church, without being seen by many.
Lord, comfort them personally. Let them know that no love offered to You is forgotten. If they are discouraged by criticism, strengthen them again. If comparison has made them tired, bring them back to a simple love for You. If they are learning to surrender something precious, give them faith and joy. Help us as sisters encourage one another, not quickly judging another person’s offering, but learning together to give our best to the Lord. Amen.
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Compassionate God, I also pray for Your Church and Your people around the world. May we not worship You only with our lips, but also respond to Your love with our lives, resources, time, money, gifts, and actions. Raise up more people like Mary—people who love You deeply, worship with warmth in a cold age, give willingly in a calculating culture, and seek only to please You amid questioning voices.
Lord, also purify the motives of our giving and service. Do not let us hide selfishness behind spiritual language. Do not let outward activity replace genuine love for You. May the world smell the fragrance of Christ through Your Church—not pride, self-interest, and performance, but humility, mercy, holiness, generosity, and self-giving love. May many be drawn to the Lord as they see this love. Amen.
After reading John 12:1-8, we see Mary pouring very costly ointment at the feet of Jesus. Some considered it wasteful, but Jesus received her love and spoke in her defense. True offerings of love to the Lord may appear excessive, foolish, or impractical to the world; but in the Lord’s eyes, everything given out of love has eternal value.
As we close this page and return to real life, the Lord may not ask you to bring a jar of ointment today. But He may invite you to offer a portion of your time, a gift, a decision, an act of obedience, a softened heart, or something you have long been reluctant to surrender. Remember this: what is precious when offered to the Lord is never wasted, and the fragrance of love for Him does not disappear.
May today’s Scripture remind you that the Lord is worthy of your best. May you not be bound by people’s opinions or limited by your own calculations, but worship Him in ordinary days with sincere, willing, and costly love. May your life, like that house filled with fragrance, carry the sweet savour of Christ because you love Him.
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