Day 64 of the Women’s Bible Plan: Read Song of Solomon Chapter 2 and reflect on the Beloved and the Lover, whose relationship is marked by affection, delight, longing, and patient waiting. Through this chapter, this devotional helps women consider the beauty of love that is cherished, protected, respected, and allowed to grow in its proper season.
MARCH 5 / Day 64
Love is a beautiful gift created by God. Yet love is also easily distorted by selfish desire, anxiety, possession, comparison, and insecurity. In today’s world, love is often reduced to intense feelings, romantic images, or the immediate satisfaction of personal longing. But Song of Solomon Chapter 2 gives us a richer picture. Beautiful love is not only passion and attraction; it also includes cherishing, waiting, honoring, self-control, and mutual affirmation.
In this chapter, the beloved hears the voice of her lover and sees him coming over the mountains and hills. He calls her to rise up and come away with him. They speak words of delight and admiration to one another, while the beloved also gives this tender warning: “stir not up, nor awake my love, till he please.”
This is not a cold moral lesson. It is a living picture filled with springtime, flowers, songbirds, fragrance, and awakening life. God does not deny the beauty of love. Instead, this chapter helps us see that when love is guarded in the right time, right relationship, and right posture of mutual honor, it reflects the beauty of God’s design.
Song of Solomon Chapter 2 continues the intimate and poetic dialogue between the beloved and her lover. The beloved describes herself as “the rose of Sharon, and the lily of the valleys,” and the lover also speaks of her as “the lily among thorns.” Their words are filled with mutual admiration and affirmation. This reminds us that healthy love does not belittle, control, or consume. It sees beauty in the other person and responds with honor and delight.
This chapter also gives us one of the most beautiful scenes in the Song. The lover is like a roe or a young hart, coming over the mountains and leaping upon the hills. He stands behind the wall, looks through the windows, and calls to the beloved: “Rise up, my love, my fair one, and come away.” Spring has come. Flowers appear on the earth. The time of singing has arrived. The voice of the turtle is heard in the land, and the vines give a good smell. These images show us that the call of love is not merely emotional impulse; it is like life awakening into a new season.
Yet Song of Solomon Chapter 2 is not only about romance. It is also about waiting and protection. The beloved charges the daughters of Jerusalem: “stir not up, nor awake my love, till he please.” This reminds us that love, though beautiful, must not be rushed, forced, manipulated, or awakened before its proper time. Precious love requires time, maturity, boundaries, and the season God allows.
From the perspective of “Women in the Bible,” the beloved’s voice is especially valuable. She is not a woman without feeling, desire, or expression. She admires, responds, longs, and also warns others not to cross love’s boundaries. She shows us that a godly woman in love is not passive or lost in another person. She can love and be loved with sincerity, clarity, dignity, and wisdom.
Today’s theme, “The Beloved and the Lover in Song of Solomon,” invites us to reflect on how we understand love. Do we grasp it with anxiety, measure it by comparison, or push it forward by desire? Or are we willing to learn before God how to cherish, wait, respect, and protect love? Whether you are single, dating, married, waiting, or healing from relational wounds, Song of Solomon Chapter 2 invites us to bring the beauty of love back under God’s wisdom and design.
1 In Song of Solomon Chapter 2, the beloved and the lover admire and affirm one another. In close relationships, do you easily notice problems, weaknesses, and disappointments while forgetting to cherish what is still worthy of gratitude? Is God inviting you to build relationships with words of respect, blessing, and appreciation?
2 The beloved says, “stir not up, nor awake my love, till he please.” How do you understand waiting and boundaries in love? In romance, marriage, physical intimacy, emotions, or relational expectations, are you willing to let God teach you not to rush, not to control, and not to be led by immature desire?
3 The lover calls the beloved, “Rise up, my love, my fair one, and come away,” like spring arriving and life awakening. Is God also inviting you in a relationship or life season to rise from fear, isolation, wounds, or self-protection? Are you willing to let God restore your hope for love and teach you to love in a healthier way?
As you read Song of Solomon Chapter 2 today, do not see it only as a love poem. Let it also remind you that the beauty of love must be cherished, the fire of love must be guarded, and the season of love must be waited for in God’s wisdom.
Take a quiet breath before you begin. Bring your thoughts about love, marriage, singleness, intimacy, past wounds, and future hopes before the Lord, and let His Word meet you there.
“I charge you, O ye daughters of Jerusalem, by the roes, and by the hinds of the field, that ye stir not up, nor awake my love, till he please.”
— Song of Solomon 2:7
2 I am the rose of Sharon, and the lily of the valleys.
2 As the lily among thorns, so is my love among the daughters.
3 As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste.
4 He brought me to the banqueting house, and his banner over me was love.
5 Stay me with flagons, comfort me with apples: for I am sick of love.
6 His left hand is under my head, and his right hand doth embrace me.
7 I charge you, O ye daughters of Jerusalem, by the roes, and by the hinds of the field, that ye stir not up, nor awake my love, till he please.
8 The voice of my beloved! behold, he cometh leaping upon the mountains, skipping upon the hills.
9 My beloved is like a roe or a young hart: behold, he standeth behind our wall, he looketh forth at the windows, shewing himself through the lattice.
10 My beloved spake, and said unto me, Rise up, my love, my fair one, and come away.
11 For, lo, the winter is past, the rain is over and gone;
12 The flowers appear on the earth; the time of the singing of birds is come, and the voice of the turtle is heard in our land;
13 The fig tree putteth forth her green figs, and the vines with the tender grape give a good smell. Arise, my love, my fair one, and come away.
14 O my dove, that art in the clefts of the rock, in the secret places of the stairs, let me see thy countenance, let me hear thy voice; for sweet is thy voice, and thy countenance is comely.
15 Take us the foxes, the little foxes, that spoil the vines: for our vines have tender grapes.
16 My beloved is mine, and I am his: he feedeth among the lilies.
17 Until the day break, and the shadows flee away, turn, my beloved, and be thou like a roe or a young hart upon the mountains of Bether.
✨ Thank you for walking through today’s Scripture with us, dear sister.
Song of Solomon Chapter 2 shows us affection, longing, calling, waiting, and the guarding of love. The beloved and the lover cherish one another, while the beloved also reminds us not to awaken love before its proper time. Now, let us bring our emotions, relationships, marriage, singleness, waiting, and desires before the Lord in prayer.
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Father, thank You for showing me through Song of Solomon Chapter 2 that love is a beautiful gift You created. You do not despise human emotion, and You do not deny the delight, affection, and joy found in close relationships. Lord, please purify my view of love. Do not let me be shaped by the world’s distorted ideas of romance, and do not let past wounds, comparison, loneliness, or insecurity rule my heart.
Help me understand that true love is not possession, control, or using another person to fill the emptiness inside me. True love learns before You how to cherish, honor, protect, and bless. Whether I am single, dating, married, or waiting, may You first become the deepest satisfaction of my heart. Then I will not grasp for love out of emptiness, but learn to love from the security You give. Amen.
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Father, the beloved says, “stir not up, nor awake my love, till he please.” Lord, place this truth deeply in my heart. So often I want answers quickly. I want relationships to move forward quickly. I want proof that I am loved. I want to hold happiness in my own way and on my own timeline. But Your Word reminds me that love has a proper time, and relationships need maturity, confirmation, and protection.
Give me wisdom to wait. If I am single, help me not lower my spiritual convictions because of anxiety. If I am dating, help me honor boundaries and not let emotions or the body move ahead of covenant. If I am married, help me patiently cultivate love instead of damaging the relationship through hurry or control. If I have been wounded in love, heal me so that I do not close myself off in fear or give myself away because of emptiness. Amen.
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Father, I also pray for the sisters around me. You know the quiet struggles many women carry in love, marriage, singleness, waiting, heartbreak, intimacy, and family responsibilities. Some long to be loved but fear being hurt. Some feel lonely in marriage. Some are anxious in waiting. Some have lost themselves in relationships.
Lord, comfort and guide them personally. Let them know that their worth is not defined by whether they are dating, married, or chosen by a particular person. Their value comes first from You, because they are daughters created, loved, and cherished by You. Give them spiritual wisdom, healthy relationships, trustworthy companions, and true healing. Help us as sisters to compare and judge less, and to understand, pray for, and support one another more. Amen.
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Compassionate God, I also pray for this world where love is often distorted, marriages are broken, relationships become unhealthy, and hearts are deeply wounded. Many people treat love as something to consume, the body as something to trade, and relationships as tools to satisfy personal desire. Many others are carrying deep wounds from betrayal, violence, manipulation, loneliness, and abandonment.
Lord, restore our understanding of love. Let more people see that true love is not harm, use, force, or selfish demand, but respect, faithfulness, cherishing, and self-giving care. Protect the hearts of young people. Heal broken marriages. Comfort those who have experienced heartbreak and relational wounds. Help the Church become a place that teaches truth, protects the vulnerable, walks with the lonely, and bears witness to the love of Christ. May this world, amid confused desires and broken relationships, see again the holiness and beauty of love as You created it. Amen.
After reading Song of Solomon Chapter 2, we see that love is not a feeling to be consumed casually, nor a relationship to be forced into maturity by anxiety. The beloved and the lover admire, call to, and cherish one another. Yet the beloved also reminds us not to stir up or awaken love before its proper time. Beautiful love must be cherished and guarded. It needs affection, but also waiting; expression, but also boundaries.
As we close this page and return to real life, perhaps you are learning to wait in singleness, discern in dating, cherish again in marriage, or heal slowly after relational wounds. Remember this: God does not take away the beauty of love. He protects its holiness, so that love may bloom in the right time, the right relationship, and the right foundation.
May today’s Scripture remind you not to rush love out of anxiety, not to trade intimacy for compromise, and not to measure your worth by another person’s choice. May God teach you to cherish in love, rest in waiting, remain clear-minded in relationships, and see life blossom beautifully in His time.
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