Day 93 of the Women’s Bible Plan: Read Genesis 12:1-9 and reflect on Abraham and Sarah leaving together in response to God’s call. Through their journey from the familiar into the unknown, this devotional helps couples consider what it means to walk the path of faith together, supporting one another as they trust God’s guidance.
In marriage, “walking together” is not only about sharing life when everything feels settled and comfortable. It also means facing the unknown together when God begins to lead a family into a new season. Sometimes God does not explain every detail before He calls us forward. He simply says, “Get thee out… unto a land that I will shew thee.”
In Genesis Chapter 12, God calls Abraham to leave his country, his kindred, and his father’s house, and go to the land God would show him. Scripture tells us that Abraham went as the Lord had spoken unto him, and that he took Sarah his wife with him. Sarah was not outside the story. She also left familiar surroundings, family connections, old securities, and a future she could more easily imagine. Together, they entered the journey of promise before they could see the whole road.
This passage reminds us that walking by faith as husband and wife does not mean both people feel fearless or that everything is already arranged. It means learning, under God’s call, to support one another, trust one another, and follow the Lord step by step.
Genesis 12:1-9 marks a major beginning in Abraham’s journey of faith. The Lord said to Abraham, “Get thee out of thy country, and from thy kindred, and from thy father’s house, unto a land that I will shew thee.” This was a call filled with promise, but also a road filled with uncertainty. God promised to make Abraham a great nation, bless him, make his name great, and bless all families of the earth through him.
Abraham went as the Lord had spoken unto him. The passage also tells us that he took Sarah his wife, Lot his brother’s son, and all their substance and people that they had gathered in Haran, and they went forth to go into the land of Canaan. Although the passage mainly records Abraham’s response, Sarah’s companionship matters deeply. She did not merely leave a location; she left familiar life, relational networks, old security, and a future that felt more controllable.
From the perspective of marriage, “leaving together” is very real and often not easy. When a husband and wife respond to God’s leading together, they may face a new environment, new risks, new responsibilities, and the need to let go of familiar habits or former stability. One person’s faith decision can affect the whole family; for the family to keep moving forward, the couple needs to seek God together, carry the cost together, and learn obedience together.
Sarah does not speak directly in this passage, but her steps already speak. She went with Abraham into the journey of God’s promise. This does not mean she would never be weak, afraid, or conflicted. In fact, the story of Abraham and Sarah’s marriage includes tension, failure, and growth. Yet their beginning shows us that the road of faith is often not walked alone, but learned together within family and marriage.
Today’s theme, “Abraham and Sarah: Leaving Together,” invites us to reflect: In marriage or close family relationships, when God leads us into a new stage, are we willing to seek Him together? When the future is unclear, circumstances feel unstable, and answers have not yet appeared, are we willing to support one another instead of blaming one another? Walking the path of faith as husband and wife does not mean there are never different opinions. It means being willing to realign our hearts before God.
1 God called Abraham to leave familiar places, and Sarah also stepped into the unknown journey with him. In your marriage, family, or current life season, is there a lesson of “leaving” before you? Perhaps it means leaving old securities, former patterns, the need to control everything, or habits that do not honor God.
2 Walking the path of faith together requires mutual support rather than pulling against one another. In relationships, do you tend to respond to the unknown with worry, complaint, or silence? Or are you willing to pray, communicate, and seek God together? Is God inviting you to become a helper on your spouse’s journey of faith rather than an added pressure?
3 Abraham built altars and called upon the name of the Lord, showing that this journey was not sustained by human planning alone, but by continually returning to God. Does your family need to rebuild a rhythm of “altar-making”—praying together, reading Scripture, surrendering decisions, seeking God for children and the future, instead of relying only on human experience and arrangements?
As you read Genesis 12:1-9 today, do not only see Abraham’s individual faith. Also notice Sarah’s steps as she left with him. May this passage help us consider that marriage is not two people walking separate roads, but learning to be of one heart, one direction, and one trust under God’s call.
Take a quiet breath before you begin. Bring your anxieties, expectations, struggles, and hopes about marriage, family, relationships, and future direction before the Lord, and let His Word meet you there.
“So Abram departed, as the LORD had spoken unto him; and Lot went with him: and Abram was seventy and five years old when he departed out of Haran.”
— Genesis 12:4
12 Now the Lord had said unto Abram, Get thee out of thy country, and from thy kindred, and from thy father's house, unto a land that I will shew thee:
2 And I will make of thee a great nation, and I will bless thee, and make thy name great; and thou shalt be a blessing:
3 And I will bless them that bless thee, and curse him that curseth thee: and in thee shall all families of the earth be blessed.
4 So Abram departed, as the Lord had spoken unto him; and Lot went with him: and Abram was seventy and five years old when he departed out of Haran.
5 And Abram took Sarai his wife, and Lot his brother's son, and all their substance that they had gathered, and the souls that they had gotten in Haran; and they went forth to go into the land of Canaan; and into the land of Canaan they came.
6 And Abram passed through the land unto the place of Sichem, unto the plain of Moreh. And the Canaanite was then in the land.
7 And the Lord appeared unto Abram, and said, Unto thy seed will I give this land: and there builded he an altar unto the Lord, who appeared unto him.
8 And he removed from thence unto a mountain on the east of Bethel, and pitched his tent, having Bethel on the west, and Hai on the east: and there he builded an altar unto the Lord, and called upon the name of the Lord.
9 And Abram journeyed, going on still toward the south.
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Genesis 12:1-9 shows us that God called Abraham to leave his country, his kindred, and his father’s house, and go to the place He would show him. Sarah also left with Abraham and entered an unknown journey held by God’s promise. Now, let us bring our marriages, families, future direction, lessons of leaving, and shared faith before the Lord in prayer.
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May Our Home Learn to Hear God’s Call
Father, thank You for reminding me through Abraham and Sarah’s story that the path of faith often begins with hearing Your call. You called Abraham to leave familiar places and go to the land You would show him. You also led Sarah to walk with him on that unknown road.
Lord, help our home not merely follow our own plans, habits, and need for security, but learn to listen to Your voice. Whether in decisions about marriage, family direction, work, raising children, serving You, or the turning points of daily life, give us humble hearts that are willing to stop and seek You. Do not let us ask only, “What feels safest?” Teach us also to ask, “Lord, where do You want us to go?” Amen.
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Supporting One Another in the Unknown Instead of Blaming One Another
Lord, leaving what is familiar is not easy. When Sarah left Haran with Abraham, she also faced unknown land, unfamiliar surroundings, and an uncertain future. Remind me that in marriage and family, the road of faith is not meant to be carried by one person alone, nor is pressure meant to be pushed onto one another. It is a journey where two people learn to depend on You together.
When the future is unclear, guard my mouth from wounding the relationship with complaint. When my heart is afraid, help me speak honestly instead of becoming cold or silent. When we disagree, lead us back before You instead of trying to defeat one another. May our marriage become a place of mutual support. Teach us to pray together, wait together, obey together, and experience Your faithfulness together in the unknown. Amen.
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Father, I also pray for the couples and families around us. You know how many households are facing relocation, job changes, financial pressure, parenting challenges, caring for parents, ministry burdens, marriage communication, or decisions about the future. Some couples are struggling to move forward together. Some are blaming one another in the unknown. Some families have lost unity under the weight of pressure.
Lord, strengthen them personally. Help husbands and wives not merely carry burdens separately, but learn to come before You together with one heart. Give them wisdom in communication, tenderness to understand one another, courage to face the unknown, and faith to pray together. Help the church also become a place that supports families, so that weary couples may be encouraged, confused families may receive guidance, and those who are still on the road may not feel alone. Amen.
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Praying for Families Who Are Leaving and Beginning Again
Compassionate God, I also pray for families around the world who are experiencing relocation, departure, and new beginnings. Many couples have left familiar places because of war, poverty, work, study, immigration, persecution, or life pressure, and have entered unfamiliar environments. Some families are separated by distance. Some children are growing up in instability. Some parents carry heavy pressure in a foreign land while still trying to preserve love and hope in the family.
Lord, be their guide and protection. May they receive provision in the unknown, help in unfamiliar places, and strength to keep loving one another under pressure. Raise up compassionate people and churches to welcome families from far away, support the weak, and accompany the lonely. May more families experience Your faithful leading through migration and change, and may they rebuild altars of worship in new lands. Amen.
After reading Genesis 12:1-9, we see that Abraham did not set out because he understood everything completely. He stepped forward under God’s call and promise. Sarah also left the familiar place with him and entered the unknown journey. Their road was not perfect, and later there would be fear, weakness, and lessons to learn. Yet the beginning of faith was this: they were willing to go forward according to the word of the Lord.
As we close this page and return to our own marriages, families, and daily lives, perhaps you are facing a new decision, leaving a familiar season, or learning how to remain united in uncertainty. Remember this: walking the path of faith together does not require two people to have no fear. It means that even in fear, they are willing to return to God together.
May today’s Scripture remind you that the road God calls you to walk is also the road He will faithfully lead. May your home learn to trust in the unknown, grow in unity through change, and in every “leaving” and “going forward,” build the altar again and call upon the name of the Lord.
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