Day 214 of the Women’s Bible Plan: Read Mark 5:21-43 and reflect on Jairus, a father who came to Jesus on behalf of his dying daughter. Through this passage, we consider how parents can seek the Lord in times of a child’s sickness, crisis, fear, and helplessness. This page includes Mark 5:21-43 Scripture, devotional reflection for parenting and family life, heart-searching questions, today’s KJV verse, prayer, and a closing response.
A child’s pain often touches the deepest place in a parent’s heart. A person may be strong in many areas of life, but when a child is sick, weak, injured, suffering, or facing a serious diagnosis, the heart quickly becomes tender, anxious, and helpless. Parents search for doctors, medicine, information, resources, and answers. And in the quiet hours of the night, many whisper the same prayer again and again: “Lord, please help my child.”
Mark Chapter 5 introduces us to a father named Jairus. He was one of the rulers of the synagogue, a man with responsibility, position, and respect. Yet when his little daughter was at the point of death, he did not stand on his status or try to preserve his dignity. He came to Jesus, fell at His feet, and besought Him greatly, saying, “My little daughter lieth at the point of death: I pray thee, come and lay thy hands on her, that she may be healed; and she shall live.”
This is the honest prayer of a parent: not polished, not distant, not carefully arranged, but urgent, humble, and full of desperate hope. Today’s passage invites every parent, grandparent, caregiver, and anyone who loves the next generation to bring the life, health, weakness, and future of children before Jesus.
Mark 5:21-43 records two healing stories woven together. One is the healing of the woman who had an issue of blood for twelve years. The other is the story of Jairus, who came to Jesus because his young daughter was near death. Today, from the perspective of parenting and family life, we especially reflect on Jairus seeking Jesus for his daughter.
Jairus was a ruler of the synagogue. In his community, he likely carried religious responsibility and social respect. But when his daughter’s life was in danger, none of those things could save her. He came to Jesus, fell at His feet, and pleaded earnestly. This scene reminds us that true faith often begins where human control ends. When parents realize they cannot control their child’s health, future, choices, or life, the most important response is not to pretend to be strong, but to bring the child to the Lord.
Yet Jairus’ waiting was not simple. While Jesus was on the way to his house, He stopped to seek and heal the woman who had touched His garment. For that woman, it was a moment of freedom and restoration. But for Jairus, it may have felt like an unbearable delay. His daughter was dying. Time seemed to be running out. Then the painful message came: “Thy daughter is dead: why troublest thou the Master any further?”
At that moment, when despairing words reached him, Jesus said to Jairus, “Be not afraid, only believe.” These words did not deny the reality of death, nor did they minimize the anguish of a parent. They turned Jairus’ eyes back to Jesus in the darkest moment. Human voices said, “It is too late.” Jesus kept walking. Human judgment said, “There is no need anymore.” Jesus entered the house, took the child by the hand, and said, “Talitha cumi,” which means, “Damsel, I say unto thee, arise.”
Today’s theme, “Jairus Seeks Jesus for His Daughter,” invites us to reflect: When a child’s sickness, growth, emotions, faith, studies, relationships, or future make us anxious, will we be swallowed by fear, or will we come to Jesus? A parent’s love is deep, but limited. A parent’s responsibility is weighty, but cannot control everything. Only Jesus can enter places we cannot enter, touch wounds we cannot touch, and give life and hope beyond our ability.
1 Jairus came to Jesus for his daughter and fell at His feet. Do you carry a burden for your child, family, or the next generation that has made you anxious, helpless, or unable to rest? How does this passage invite you not only to worry, but to truly entrust your child to the Lord?
2 On the way to Jairus’ house, Jesus stopped to heal the woman with the issue of blood. For Jairus, this waiting may have been deeply painful. Have you ever felt that God was working in someone else’s life while your family was still waiting? In seasons of delay, how can you learn to believe that the Lord has not forgotten you and that His timing is not mistaken?
3 When people said, “Thy daughter is dead,” Jesus said, “Be not afraid, only believe.” Are there voices in your life that keep saying, “It is too late,” “There is no hope,” or “There is no use praying anymore”? How does the Lord’s word help you hold on to Him even in the face of painful news?
As you read Mark 5:21-43 today, do not only notice the miracle at the end. Pay attention to Jairus’ whole journey: falling at Jesus’ feet, waiting in distress, hearing devastating news, and still following Jesus into the house. A parent’s faith does not mean there are no tears. Sometimes it means continuing to follow Jesus through the tears.
Take a quiet breath before you begin. Bring your children, your family, the next generation, and the deepest concerns of your heart before the Lord, and let His Word meet you there.
“As soon as Jesus heard the word that was spoken, he saith unto the ruler of the synagogue, Be not afraid, only believe.”
— Mark 5:36
21 And when Jesus was passed over again by ship unto the other side, much people gathered unto him: and he was nigh unto the sea.
22 And, behold, there cometh one of the rulers of the synagogue, Jairus by name; and when he saw him, he fell at his feet,
23 And besought him greatly, saying, My little daughter lieth at the point of death: I pray thee, come and lay thy hands on her, that she may be healed; and she shall live.
24 And Jesus went with him; and much people followed him, and thronged him.
25 And a certain woman, which had an issue of blood twelve years,
26 And had suffered many things of many physicians, and had spent all that she had, and was nothing bettered, but rather grew worse,
27 When she had heard of Jesus, came in the press behind, and touched his garment.
28 For she said, If I may touch but his clothes, I shall be whole.
29 And straightway the fountain of her blood was dried up; and she felt in her body that she was healed of that plague.
30 And Jesus, immediately knowing in himself that virtue had gone out of him, turned him about in the press, and said, Who touched my clothes?
31 And his disciples said unto him, Thou seest the multitude thronging thee, and sayest thou, Who touched me?
32 And he looked round about to see her that had done this thing.
33 But the woman fearing and trembling, knowing what was done in her, came and fell down before him, and told him all the truth.
34 And he said unto her, Daughter, thy faith hath made thee whole; go in peace, and be whole of thy plague.
35 While he yet spake, there came from the ruler of the synagogue's house certain which said, Thy daughter is dead: why troublest thou the Master any further?
36 As soon as Jesus heard the word that was spoken, he saith unto the ruler of the synagogue, Be not afraid, only believe.
37 And he suffered no man to follow him, save Peter, and James, and John the brother of James.
38 And he cometh to the house of the ruler of the synagogue, and seeth the tumult, and them that wept and wailed greatly.
39 And when he was come in, he saith unto them, Why make ye this ado, and weep? the damsel is not dead, but sleepeth.
40 And they laughed him to scorn. But when he had put them all out, he taketh the father and the mother of the damsel, and them that were with him, and entereth in where the damsel was lying.
41 And he took the damsel by the hand, and said unto her, Talitha cumi; which is, being interpreted, Damsel, I say unto thee, arise.
42 And straightway the damsel arose, and walked; for she was of the age of twelve years. And they were astonished with a great astonishment.
43 And he charged them straitly that no man should know it; and commanded that something should be given her to eat.
✨ Thank you for walking through today’s Scripture with us, dear sister.
Mark 5:21-43 shows us Jairus coming to Jesus when his daughter was near death. He fell at the Lord’s feet and pleaded for help. In waiting and in devastating news, he heard Jesus say, “Be not afraid, only believe.” Now, let us bring our children’s health, growth, faith, emotions, future, and the unspoken anxieties of a parent’s heart before the Lord in prayer.
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Bringing My Child to Jesus
Father, thank You for reminding me through Jairus’ story that when a child is weak, sick, wounded, or in crisis, I do not have to be swallowed by fear, and I do not have to carry everything by my own strength. Jairus came to the feet of Jesus and pleaded for his daughter. Today, I also bring the children You have placed in my life before You.
Lord, You know every child’s body, heart, personality, emotions, learning, relationships, and faith. You also know the worries in a parent’s heart that cannot be fully explained to others. Help me not only to be anxious, not only to search everywhere for answers, but first to come before You. Teach me to uphold my child in prayer, to look to You with faith, and to entrust the life I cannot control into Your hands. Amen.
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Not Being Overcome by Fear in the Waiting
Lord, Jairus asked You to come and save his daughter, yet he had to wait on the way. You stopped to heal the woman with the issue of blood while his daughter remained in danger. Lord, I admit that waiting often makes me anxious, especially when it concerns my child or my family. I can become afraid, impatient, and even wonder whether You are delayed.
Help me trust You in the waiting. Even when I see others receive answers first, keep my heart from comparison and disappointment. Even when the situation seems increasingly urgent, remind me that Your love is not late and Your timing is not mistaken. Before I see the outcome, help me continue following You closely and not let fear make my decisions for me. Amen.
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Holding On to the Lord’s Word in Bad News
Father, when people told Jairus, “Thy daughter is dead: why troublest thou the Master any further?” it sounded as though human voices had already reached a final conclusion. But Jesus said to him, “Be not afraid, only believe.” Lord, I also hear many discouraging voices: about my child’s health, personality, studies, faith, future, our family struggles, and situations that seem impossible to change.
Help me discern Your voice in the midst of bad news. Do not let me escape reality or deny the seriousness of problems, but also do not let me be swallowed by despair. Let Your word become the anchor of my heart. When I am most afraid, help me hold on to You. Lord, enter the places where I think there is no hope, stretch out Your hand, and bring life, healing, awakening, and renewed hope. Amen.
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Interceding for Families
Father, I also pray for parents around me who are deeply worried about their children. Some are sitting beside hospital beds. Some are facing medical reports. Some are anxious about their children’s emotions, learning, rebellion, friendships, faith, or future. Some look strong on the outside, yet carry long-term pressure and tears within.
Lord, comfort them personally. Let them know they are not carrying this alone and that they are not failed parents. Give them wisdom to seek the right help, patience to walk with their children, and faith to entrust their children to You. Help us become a supportive community for one another, not judging other people’s children or families carelessly, but praying, encouraging, and walking together in love. Amen.
After reading Mark 5:21-43, we see that Jairus did not come to Jesus with complete answers. He came with the heart of a father who was about to lose his daughter. He fell down, pleaded, waited, and heard devastating news. Yet Jesus did not stop at human conclusions. He continued forward, entered the house filled with weeping, and took the child by the hand.
As we close this page and return to family life, perhaps you are worried about your child’s body, emotions, faith, studies, relationships, or future. Perhaps you have done all you can and still feel helpless. Remember this: a parent’s love is limited, but a parent can bring the child before the unlimited Lord. Your prayer is not a useless sigh. It is an act of entrusting your child to the One who truly holds life.
May today’s Scripture remind you: when a child is sick, you can come to Jesus; when the waiting is long, you can keep following Jesus; when bad news comes, you can hold on to the Lord’s word: “Be not afraid, only believe.” May your family be comforted by His mercy, and may your child’s life be watched over by the Lord Himself.
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