Day 141 of the Women’s Bible Plan: Read Matthew 5:27-32 and reflect on Jesus’ teaching about adultery, inward desire, marital faithfulness, and divorce in the Sermon on the Mount. Today’s theme, “Do Not Commit Adultery and Purity of Heart,” invites us to see that God cares not only about outward actions, but also about the heart. This page includes Matthew 5:27-32 Scripture, a devotional guide on marriage and relationships, reflection questions, a daily verse, prayer, and a life response.
When we talk about marriage, faithfulness, desire, and purity, it is easy to focus only on outward behavior: Have I crossed a line? Have I done something wrong? Has anyone found out? But in Matthew Chapter 5, Jesus brings us much deeper. He does not only ask whether we have committed an obvious sin; He shines His light upon our eyes, desires, motives, thoughts, and choices.
This passage is not meant to trap us in shame or despair. Instead, it calls us back to God’s original design for marriage, love, and holiness. The purity God desires is not merely a clean outward appearance, but a heart learning truthfulness, faithfulness, reverence, and self-control. Jesus is not only concerned that rules be kept; He cares that our hearts not be ruled by sin, that relationships not be distorted by lust, that marriage not be treated lightly, and that vulnerable people not be harmed.
In today’s passage, Jesus calls us to pursue purity from the heart. This is not a moral performance we can force by willpower alone. It is allowing God’s light to enter our eyes, thoughts, emotions, relationships, and choices—so that we may learn faithfulness in marriage, purity in singleness, and reverence toward God in every relationship.
Matthew 5:27-32 is an important part of the Sermon on the Mount. Jesus quotes the commandment, “Thou shalt not commit adultery,” but He goes further by saying that whoever looks on a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart. Jesus moves our attention from outward behavior to the hidden places of the heart. Sin often does not begin only at the moment of action; it begins as the eyes, thoughts, desires, and inner permissions slowly turn away from God.
Then Jesus uses very strong language: if the right eye causes one to offend, pluck it out and cast it away; if the right hand causes one to offend, cut it off and cast it away. He is not calling people to harm their bodies, but using a serious image to show that sin must not be treated lightly. We cannot say we desire purity while continuing to preserve safe spaces for temptation. A heart that pursues holiness must be willing to cut off the entrances, habits, patterns, and relationships that repeatedly lead it toward sin.
This passage also addresses divorce. In Jesus’ day, some used legal documents of divorce in ways that harmed and abandoned their spouses, treating marriage as something that could be easily discarded. Jesus’ teaching is not meant to oppress people in painful or unsafe situations, but to restore the seriousness of marriage, call people to faithfulness, and protect those who were vulnerable to rejection and harm.
From the perspective of “Marriage and Husband-Wife Relationships,” this passage reminds us that marital faithfulness is not only physical faithfulness. It also includes the faithfulness of the eyes, thoughts, affections, and will. Marriage is not sustained only by outward duty; it also requires an inward, repeated choice to honor, cherish, tell the truth, and remain pure. For single sisters, this passage is also precious, because purity does not belong only to married people. Every person who belongs to God is called to love, see, and treat others with a clean heart.
Today’s theme, “Do Not Commit Adultery and Purity of Heart,” invites us to ask: Is my heart willing to be searched by the Lord? Am I satisfied merely because I have not crossed an obvious boundary, while ignoring hidden fantasies, comparisons, emotional entanglements, secret desires, or unhealthy attachments? Jesus calls us to pursue purity from the heart because He wants to give us more than the feeling of “not having done anything wrong.” He wants to give us deeper freedom, honesty, and love.
1 Jesus says that whoever looks on a woman to lust after her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. How do you understand “purity of heart” as something that includes not only outward boundaries, but also the direction of our eyes, thoughts, emotions, and desires? In your daily life, what content, habits, or relationships may need the Lord’s light?
2 Jesus uses strong imagery to teach us to deal seriously with whatever causes us to stumble. Are there entrances in your life that you know weaken you, but you have not truly cut off? It may be certain media content, emotional ambiguity, hidden comparison, unhealthy dependence, fantasies, or habits that draw you away from God.
3 This passage also reminds us that marriage is not a relationship to be treated lightly. Whether you are married, single, waiting, wounded from the past, or learning to rebuild trust, is God inviting you to view intimate relationships with greater reverence, honesty, purity, and faithfulness?
As you read Matthew 5:27-32 today, do not use this passage only to judge others. Let the Lord gently and truthfully shine His light upon your own heart. He exposes sin not to shame us, but to heal us. He calls us to holiness not to crush us, but to set us free.
Take a quiet breath before you begin. Bring your eyes, thoughts, desires, relationships, and view of marriage before the Lord, and let His Word meet you there.
“But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.”
— Matthew 5:28
27 Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:
28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
29 And if thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell.
30 And if thy right hand offend thee, cut it off, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell.
31 It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement:
32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
✨ Thank you for walking through today’s Scripture with us, dear sister.
Matthew 5:27-32 shows us that Jesus not only calls people away from outward adultery, but also calls us to pursue purity from the heart. He cares about our eyes, thoughts, desires, marital faithfulness, and truthfulness in relationships. Now, let us bring our hearts, bodies, emotions, marriages, and intimate relationships before God in prayer.
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Asking the Lord to Search My Eyes and Heart
Father, thank You for reminding me through the words of Jesus that You do not only see outward behavior; You also see my heart. Many times, I may think that as long as I have not crossed an obvious line, I am fine. But You know my eyes, my thoughts, my imagination, and my desires. You also know the hidden corners that need Your light.
Lord, purify my eyes so that I do not treat others as objects for my own desire. Purify my thoughts so that I do not continue to nurture fantasies that do not please You. Purify my emotions so that I do not seek unhealthy attachments, emotional ambiguity, or substitutes for true love. Give me a clean heart, and teach me to see myself and others with respect, reverence, and love. Amen.
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Asking the Lord to Help Me Deal Seriously with What Causes Me to Stumble
Lord, You use strong words to remind us not to treat the things that cause us to stumble lightly. Help me honestly face the entrances I have avoided dealing with. Perhaps it is content I keep returning to, a relationship that pulls my heart farther from You, or temptation hidden in my phone, social media, messages, comparisons, or imagination.
Give me courage to stop leaving safe spaces for sin. If something needs to end, help me end it. If boundaries need to be built, help me build them. If a relationship needs to be reordered, give me wisdom and decisiveness. Lord, I do not pursue holiness by my own strength. I ask Your Spirit to make me willing to obey and strong enough to keep obeying. Amen.
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Father, I also pray for the sisters around me. You know how many women struggle with marriage, relationships, loneliness, temptation, wounds, and questions of self-worth. Some feel unseen in marriage. Some feel lonely in singleness. Some are trapped in unhealthy relationships. Some are burdened by past failure or shame and are afraid to come before You again.
Lord, lift them up with grace. Let them know that holiness is not cold condemnation, but Your path back to freedom and truth. Give them wisdom to discern relationships, courage to set boundaries, strength to leave sin and harm, and trustworthy spiritual companions to walk with them. Help us as sisters not to judge one another, but to love one another in truth, support one another in weakness, and pursue clean hearts together. Amen.
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Praying for Healing in a World Wounded by Lust and Broken Relationships
Compassionate God, I also pray for all those in this world who have been wounded by unfaithfulness, lust, exploitation, and broken relationships. I pray for families broken by adultery, people wounded by betrayal, those objectified by pornography and sexualized culture, survivors of sexual harm and emotional manipulation, and those who have lost dignity and safety in relationships.
Lord, bring healing and protection. Raise up Your Church and Your people to become communities of safety, honesty, holiness, and mercy. Help this generation recover the dignity of the body, the covenant beauty of marriage, faithfulness in relationships, and the truth that human worth is not measured by desire. May Your truth break lies, Your grace heal shame, and Your love restore the broken, so that more people may find freedom in Christ. Amen.
After reading Matthew 5:27-32, we see that Jesus does not only want people to keep outward boundaries. He calls us to bring the heart before God. He knows that sin often takes root first in the eyes and thoughts, and that relationships often begin to break when reverence, faithfulness, and purity are no longer guarded within. The teaching of Jesus is serious, but it is also loving, because He wants to protect us from bondage to sin and protect relationships from being damaged by selfish desire.
As we close this page and return to real life, perhaps today you need to reorder the content on your phone, rebuild boundaries in a relationship, express faithfulness and appreciation to your spouse, or bring a long-hidden struggle before God. Remember this: holiness is not pretending that you have no weakness. Holiness is being willing to come to the Lord in your weakness and be searched, cleansed, lifted up, and renewed by Him.
May today’s Scripture remind you that God is not looking for surface-level perfection, but for a heart willing to return to Him. May you learn to fear God in your eyes, thoughts, emotions, and relationships, live with faithfulness, respect, and purity in marriage and intimate relationships, and receive deeper freedom through the grace of Christ.
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